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Originally posted by Lady Dane:
I'll delete it then.

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Ignored post by Ankhu IGs posted Sun January 28 2007 02:26 PM

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Originally posted by Purfect Dream : I don't know how old all the members are on this forum. But some of you and you know who I am referring to. Act just like kids. It seems when you dislike a person or a popular person in ones little Group gets mad at another member not just one person treats that member like dirt it seems like the whole group in that popular circle decides to get mad or ignores that one person as well just because they see the popular person doing it. Even though the group only knows half the story. I have never been a follow the leader when it came to having friends. I fell into that when I became a certain person’s friend. After I bit I more or less gave up my own options just to keep my friends.
Because when I voice my concerns or option my friends started to turn on me. I then realize the mistake I made by stating my true feelings. I have said this many times before I am very blunt but I held my true feeling back. Because I knew it would cause a big rift in my friendships and true to what I thought it had. The ones I called friend did indeed turn on me because I choose not to fight with a member or trash this same member when she no longer was a member. I am going on 40 years old and grow tired of the teenage games of“if you talk to this person when I am mad at them, you can not be my friend.”
When I requested that person would not speak to certain people that I did not care for I was told Stop acting a spoiled brat or stop throwing a tantrum. Or “If you don’t bash this person as I do I will consider you as bad as that person.” I will say this , I value my friendship. But when a person states that they have ended a friendship because that person is not in their best interest any longer to remain friend.
I will cut my lost and my loyalties are no longer with those I once called a friend.
I am starting to wonder if I join a talk forum or Grade school. Well I said my peace on this. I will not betray myself just to make friends I wont talk to a person that I don’t like just to keep a friend or the peace or act like I have no issues with a person when I do just to keep a friend. A true friend would never make their friend do anything they feel uncomfortable doing just to keep a friendship. This is how I felt just to keep the few friends I thought I had.