Wow, really?! I think it is strange that you would meet someone with the exact name as your ex's. I wouldn't not date them just because of the name thing though. That would be a little freaky though, especially if you and your ex ended on bad terms. At least you wouldn't have to worry about calling him the wrong name!!
LOL i know!!! it is kinda creepy, both have the same first and last name. Me and the ex did end on bad terms, but this guy is really nice...just totally freaked me out when he told me what his name was....
quote:Originally posted by Green_Wytch: LOL i know!!! it is kinda creepy, both have the same first and last name. Me and the ex did end on bad terms, but this guy is really nice...just totally freaked me out when he told me what his name was....
hahaha where'd you hear that from? i've dated women before, and i probably will in the future...but the ex was a guy, and this one's a guy....why, you interested?
quote:Originally posted by Green_Wytch: LOL i know!!! it is kinda creepy, both have the same first and last name. Me and the ex did end on bad terms, but this guy is really nice...just totally freaked me out when he told me what his name was....
Yeah, that would probably creep me out also!
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It is a little strange, but if it does not bother you then I say "Go for it!" My husband's only other long term relationship was with another Jennifer and it was weird at first, but only when introducing me to his family. The real strange part is she lives in my town one street over from me and I pass her house taking my kids to school. I did not have much of a past when we met I was young and in CA so what little past I had is back there. Now we are living where he grew up and guys being guys he has a past and it never has sat well with me. I've been with him 14yrs and you'd think I'd get over it, but nope. Our last name is very unusual and we are the only ones in this town with that name and being as my in-laws are high profile (for this small town anyway) everyone knows the family and asks are you married to? When they say my husband and "oh I dated him" I've gotten to the point of not so nice anymore and put my hand out (for a shake) and say "oh you sleep with him too?" I know it's horrible, but in a small town everyone knows everyone and slept with everyone. He had his teen yrs here and he's been honest so nothing has ever bit me in the behind, but I don't like meeting girls he's "been with" it's definitely a jealous thing and something I've never been able to get over. Stupid huh?
No, I don't think it's stupid. I have dated guys with a past and it is not easy at all. Just remember that you are the one that is with him now, and has been with him for the past 14 years! You are the one that has children with him! He chose you over the other women that he has been with in the past! That says a lot about you! Keep doing what you are doing girl!!
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