Would you disown a friend if you found out they were Gay?

Well Golly Gee Tom Tom, Thennnnnn If it's not part of the orignal question then that makes all the difference...and no other questions may be asked....I guess since you are not "signed in" then a question shouldn't have been directed at you in the first place...You talk about trust...LOLOLOLOLOLOL..be a real man or woman..and sign in and stop hiding behind fakeness...naaaaaaa never mind .don't

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Originally posted by TomTom:
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Originally posted by Stacey:
TomTom,
What if they were just admitting their sexual preference to themselves? And you being their friend they told you after they finally admitted it? Would it still make you as angry? I'm not trying to start something, I'm really wondering..
Stac...

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Originally posted by TomTom:
It would **** me right off.

The hell with you if you say you aren't much of a friend. The friend who is gay is a damn liar and a big one at that. Now who of you wants to stay friends when your whole friendship relationship was a lie? They didn't trust you enough to be honest with you.

TomTom,
What if they were just finding out and admitting to themselves first??? Then would you be P*ssed? Perhaps they had a hard time admitting it to themselves, if that was the case how would they tell you first?
This is just putting a different spin on it, not trying to start something..
Stac

What else have they been dishonest with you about? Do they have aids? Are they dying? These are serious things to consider when you find out that someone is gay and lied to you by omission about it.

Be stupid if you want. But I would be pissed!

That wasn't part of the original question.

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Ignored post by Stacey posted

Stacey

Newba Pluba

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quote:
Originally posted by Purfect Dream:
do you think the Mod will make the whole forum where you have to register to make replies?

That would be nice...but me thinks its not going to change

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Exceptional Pluba

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ORIGINAL QUESTION

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Originally posted by dchis:
Would you disown a friend if you found out they were Gay?
How would you react? Mad, upset, or just plain indifferent?

TomTom head up HIS a** answer

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TomTom>

Posted Jun 2, 9:52 PM
It would **** me right off.

The hell with you if you say you aren't much of a friend. Excuse me? To hell with someone who has an opinion that doesn't reflect your own? Are you related to anyone that was named "Hilter" by any chance? The friend who is gay is a damn liar and a big one at that. Have you ever considered that perhaps that person was lying to themself? Do you have a little thing called "compassion"? Every situattion is different. Get your head out of YOUR A** and think about someone other than yourself. Now who of you wants to stay friends when your whole friendship relationship was a lie? Your entire post speaks volumes! You couldn't be more selfish, could you? It's all about Tom, isn't it? You're not much of a friend, Tom. You suck. They didn't trust you enough to be honest with you. Well, with a "friend" like you, I can't believe that ANYONE would tell you ANYTHING. Of course, it looks like you're pretty "high maintenance" so most probably don't stick around long enough. You just stick with your little byb online mentors, and move along.

What else have they been dishonest with you about? That wasn't in the original question, a**hole. What's it doing in your response? Do they have aids? Neither was this in the original question. Just going by your rules---doesn't belong here. Are they dying? Again, irrelevant. These are serious things to consider when you find out that someone is gay and lied to you by omission about it.

Be stupid if you want. But I would be pissed! Fine. You're pissed, but that doesn't make the rest of us stupid. That just makes you ignorant of the real meaning of being a friend.

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<Rose>

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Like anybody wastes their time reading your gibberish, Denise.

CrystalK

Grand Pluba

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Well, obviously you do and just did, dumb*ss!

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Like anybody wastes their time reading your gibberish, Denise.

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Stacey

Newba Pluba

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Originally posted by CrystalK:
Well, obviously you do and just did, dumb*ss!

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Originally posted by Rose:
Like anybody wastes their time reading your gibberish, Denise.

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Exceptional Pluba

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It's sad that so-called "Christians" like rose and tom can't open up thier hearts and have a little compassion. It's hot where you're goin'.

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I have plenty of friends who are gay. I also hang around mothers who have kids who turned gay. They are the most wonderful people i have ever met. I am a married woman with a son, and my son goes with me to there parties, and doesn't even care if they are all ladies who are gay. They make me smile, and they make me laugh. They like me even though i am straight, so what's the difference. I wonder what the answer's would be, if it read, would you be mad if you were gay, and you found out your best friend was straight? ( Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmm. ) :0

<Rose>

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Originally posted by CrystalK:
Well, obviously you do and just did, dumb*ss!

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Originally posted by Rose:
Like anybody wastes their time reading your gibberish, Denise.

That's where you are wrong. I saw the exorbitant amount of red lettering and saw the poster's name and passed. I just posted a comment. Crystalk, can you ever see past your own nose? Nevermind. I know you cannot.

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Originally posted by Denise:
It's sad that so-called "Christians" like rose and tom can't open up thier hearts and have a little compassion. It's hot where you're goin'.

For a true Christian, being gay is a sin. End of story.

As for being hot, who cares? I know you don't!

CrystalK

Grand Pluba

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Red lettering? wow..you got me there.

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Ignored post by CrystalK posted

Exceptional Pluba

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Originally posted by TomTom:
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Originally posted by Denise:
It's sad that so-called "Christians" like rose and tom can't open up thier hearts and have a little compassion. It's hot where you're goin'.

For a true Christian, being gay is a sin. What's your point? Aren't we COMMANDED to love EVERYONE? Yep, we are, but you prefer to put that big black "sin" sticker on everyone that doesn't live the way YOU want them to live. P.S.--you're rejection and condemnation of others is also a sin. End of story.

As for being hot, who cares? I know you don't! Cop out. That all you have to say? yah, good one.

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dchis

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TT seems to me you are extreamly homophobic would it matter to you really what if this person was female and just decided after years of sole searching to come out and be true to oneself and not what others feel they should be? Sometimes oneself cannot express their inner feelings even to best friend without the feeling of shame? God chooses to love everyone, not for sexual preference but for oneself.

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Doxiechick

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First off, other than "sheila', seems everyone who posted on this thread unregistered is a horse's ***....Tom Tom, if that were you, watch out! Men who make comments like yours usually have latent tendencies and they are terrified they might come out. People who are comfortable with who they are have no fears with this sort of thing.

To the original poster of this question, Why would you ask such a question? True, no question is a dumb question, but what would make you even consider this? Wouls you disown your friend if they had cancer? To even comtemplate disowning a friend for something like this is not something I would announce. If it were my friend, I would do anything I could to let them know that I love them and will help them deal with the pricks that will make them feel like less of a human being. This crap about if it were a same sex friend...people get over yourselves. Just because someone is gay does not mean they are a hormone laden perv who can't resist touching anyone in their path who is the same sex. That thought is totally demeaning to them just like it would be demeaning to you. Worse case scenario - they did have a slight crust. Would be no different then if i had a guy friend who i
found out had a crush on me. I cant see how anyone would find it different. You still treat them kindly and just let them know the feelings are not reciprocated. No offense to the original poster, but i am wondering why you are wondering about something like this? Have you actually contemplated disowning someone? And don't be too harsh on Susie. She is right. What right do we have to "disown" what might be a good friend over something so shallow? In my mind that is no different than disowning a friend because she put on weight. Both are equally demeaning.

What a foolish world we live in.

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Doxiechick

Grand Pluba

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Bonskeep, you were around when susie first started posting....surely you remember she is the young girl who initially posted questions about the doixe nee cho?

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Originally posted by Doxiechick:
Bonskeep, you were around when susie first started posting....surely you remember she is the young girl who initially posted questions about the doixe nee cho?

muahhhhahahhahahahahahah

oh doxie, Idle Threats Make Quick Regrets...

WHO AM I?

muahhahhhhahhahahhahhaaha

<Uncle>

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Originally posted by Bonskeep:
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Originally posted by Doxiechick:
Bonskeep, you were around when susie first started posting....surely you remember she is the young girl who initially posted questions about the doixe nee cho?

muahhhhahahhahahahahahah

oh doxie, Idle Threats Make Quick Regrets...

WHO AM I?

muahhahhhhahhahahhahhaaha

we know who you arent and that is the real bonskeep

Doxiechick

Grand Pluba

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oh doxie, Idle Threats Make Quick Regrets...

uhhh....where did i make a threat?

YOU GOT ME! How did you find out??? Surely everyone already knew i was the real Bonskeep, you just figured that out?

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Ignored post by Doxiechick posted

Exceptional Pluba

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i am wondering why you are wondering about something like this? Have you actually contemplated disowning someone?

Gotta look at it from both sides. Maybe she has a friend that others have rejected, and she's trying to get their predjudice perspective--if so, then TomTom has answered that question for her, eh?

dchis doesn't seem like the type to do that to anyone, so I'd be surprised if she meant it that way. JMO--could be off base, but that's how I took it while I was reading her post.

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