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| <Laura>
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How do you feel about abortion?Please check out this web site I had found and see if it is what you may think it is.priestsforlife.org I couldnt believe what I saw.
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Good Pluba |
How does this apply to psychologist bench? Do you need consoling after an abortion? Also I think people should know, though I dont know the legitimate nature of the site that it is graphic and not images that some would like to see.
Especially unknowingly. Christina "We can judge the heart of a man by his treatment of animals." - Immanuel Kant |
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I havent checked out the site, nor do I think I will. Thanks for the heads up SH.
Now what do I think about abortion... I dont believe in it. But there are times when it needs to be done. When I found out I was pregnant my mom gave me options (Thank goodness!). Abortion, adoption (and she'd raise him), or I raise him. I couldnt see myself killing this little person growing inside of me. Knowing that its half me, and I'm suppose to protect it and care for it. I couldnt give him up for adoption either, I didnt like the thought of someone else raising MY son. Like I've stated there are times when abortion needs to be done. If carrying the child will put the mother or child in danger then by all means abortion is best. I think most people who get an abortion (or at least people around here) are doing it becasue of their reputation. Most should seriously consider adoption. There are great couples out there who sadly enough can not have children, but have dreamed of them. The difference between the mother going into labor early, and abortion is GREAT. Abortion is something done KNOWINGLY. A premie birth isnt done knowingly. ~May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day and may their arms be too short to scratch..~ |
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Very Good Pluba |
quote: Oh, you think it's fun having that on a website? Imagine coming home from the store or wherever, and seeing a HUGE poster like that 2 doors from your house? I think THAT is disrespect towards the fetuses and towards the people that are already against abortion to have to see that. There's an old lady that protests down the street (abortion clinic right by us) and she's so sweet, all she has is a number for helping pregnant people, and a list of methods of birth control. I actually walked up to her and said thank you to her for not having dead babies plastered right by my door, and that her way was MUCH better than posting dead pics everywhere. I mean, most people have abortions because they don't know where to turn, and just by seeing a pic of some dead baby, that's not going to change the fact that they're scared and don't know what to do! |
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Grand Pluba |
I didn't go to the site in question...I don't need to. I have no problem admitting that I had an abortion 22 years ago and I can tell you that it was the MOST traumatic thing I've every gone through in my life. I still remember my due date...I still remember every single year how old my child would have been...it's horrible. I am the mother of 3 kids. This was a pregnancy that happened between my 2nd and 3rd child. Same father as my youngest (he's 21 now), and believe me, every time I look at my son I think of the sibling he never knew. To this day, he doesn't know that I aborted his brother/sister. One day I WILL tell him, but even after all these years, it's just too painful to think about, let alone talk about. I've done a lot of regrettful things in my 43 years of life, but nothing compares to that....
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| <me------->
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I had an abortion done 11 years ago and still hate myself for it, even though I was 16 and was taken away from everything i knew and was told "have it, we are not leaving until it is done!!" and still to this day I hate myself for listening to my parents and going through it...
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Grand Pluba |
I hear ya! I was 20 and although it wasn't my parents, it was a boyfriend who gave me the song and dance of "I won't be around if you don't do this". Like an idiot, I fell for it, did it, and regretted it. Ironically, 18 months later, same thing happened with the same man...this time I said 'TOO FUCKING BAD...LEAVE, I DON'T CARE BECAUSE I WILL NOT GO THROUGH THAT AGAIN"
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Grand Pluba |
Darn it, hit the send button before I meant to...anyway...I stuck to my guns and yes he did leave me for a few months, but when he realized I wasn't going to give in, he came back. Our son is 21 today and this man has been the BEST father I could ever have hoped for. Although, we are not together (we finally split when our son was 10), he has been the most devoted father I could have ever asked for. So, my advice to those who are being "brow beaten" into having an abortion...go with your gut and your OWN heart. Don't be talked into something you don't feel is right. You will never regret it...
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| <Laura>
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Please dont be harsh or disgruntled with what I had asked about abortion.I had a miscarrieage this past January and it was so devistating to me (she would have been my fourth live child).After this had happened to me I was on the computer all the time looking into reasons, mistakes,diseases and anything else you can think of that had to do with miscarriage.In a search engine I came across this site.I though it may help someone who didnt relize the truth about abortion, as some may have been told that "the fetus" is jsut a blob of cells.I understand there are reasons for things and everyone has their situation, but I though , as I was going through my own torment of my miscarriage (at 5 months) maybe this site would tell jsut one person about the truths of what abortion is or what it does.I am not at all judging anyone who has had one done, but maybe if it can save a baby in the future, it would have done its purpose.I cna amore understand early abortion but what about late term partial birth abortion?When babies are weeks away from being born are purposely killed.It is just something I wonder if Americans know and would they still do it if they knew the truths about it.If me posting this website saves one pergnancy to go to term tehn I am glad I posted it.Someone who just doesnt want to be pregnant may opt to al least consider adoption, fo rthat fmaily that cant have any children.I am still emotionally distraught over the loss of my baby.I am not an extremist or anything , jsut a mother who lost a baby, who wanted to give some information I had accidently found on the computer.The site was horrific to me and I never knew, that was what abortion looked like, for some reason I thought it was a different kind of thing, just dont know why.
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Good Pluba |
Abortion should be a choice for every woman, thats my opinion.
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Good Pluba |
But, if the woman decides that she wants an abortion, it should definately happen at a very early stage of pregnancy.
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| <~abortion~>
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quote: Crystal & me, I am so sorry for you sweeties! I have a friend who had an abortion not knowing much of anything about abortion. Now that she knows about developement and stages and things, she can't even visit and look at my children. I have watched her torment herself to no end. Crystal, you are a strong woman for putting your foot down with your youngest child, it must have been very scarey to think you would have to raise all your 3 children on your own.My brother and his wife had two abortions, he had lost his father when he was very young and would and still often does have dreams of his father holding both of his children and as they grow holding there hands as they stand with him, staring down my brother with out a word in his dreams. I don't know what to tell him to make him feel better other then at most this dream means the boys are safe with his dad and they will all be with him again someday. I hope that some can learn from others and both of you talking openly about your situations may help someone else. I was very young when I had my oldest child and I had to move out and no one would talk to me but my brother and what he said stopped me from aborting my child to be able to go home. I moved in with a friend from churches family and finished school and I am so thankful today for my REAL mom and dad taking me in when I needed someone the most! |
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| <betty>
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well i agree with abortion as well as its every womans personal decision i belive that if you cant give the baby a proper home why force it to suffer on your account? and some abortions are the result of rape which i agree with how would you feel knowing that you dont have a family? this poor baby has to grow up knowing his/her "father" was a rapist who sexually violated and raped his/her mother none the less the baby would kno (s)he was an accident. And the poor mother. also one slip up (from the mother) and this poor young girl is trapped between a rock and a hard place for some people its the only way out of a bad situation and to play the devils advocate if you think the woman /man is getting off easy by getting an abortion(not paying for the consequense of unprotected premarital sex) these people do have to live with the fact that they stopped a beating heart and not to mention the cost i believe its an OK thing to do on all ends to the dicussion dont you?
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| <betty>
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***third line to make it clear i dont agree with rape i agree with abortions because of the inccident***sorry
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Newba Pluba |
crystal and me, you are both very strong woman, and I can't imagine going through what you went through, and are going through. You both are wonderful woman, and should hope you don't beet yourselves up. Bless you both.
 Stac |
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Good Pluba |
I didn't read all these posts. I feel that aborton is murder...plain and simple. It is the killing of a child no matter how small they are. A baby is just that...a baby and that is from the moment of conception. As far as I am concerned, if it is growing, then it is a life. I was told to have an abortion with my first child. The reason being that I was told I couldn't have children because I would die in labor. I was on birth control and got pregnant anyway. I was unwilling to kill my baby. I feel that if I died than that is what was meant to be, but I would not kill my child. God was watching over us because I was fine and healthy and so was my baby. I will not say that I have the right to speak for everyone, but these are my beliefs. I could never kill my child. There are so many other options...and people ask why abortion doctors are hated so much. Because they are taking innocent lives and throwing them away. I am sure this is not what God intended for these babies. It is a shame that some people and I do not mean everyone that has had an abortion, but some people value the gift of life so poorly.
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Pluba Freshman |
Well said Akitacrazy. I never had an abortion, but I have miscarried once before, and even that was traumatic. It's different I guess because it was God's will, but nonetheless traumatic.
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Good Pluba |
well i went to that site, and the first trimester pics are bullshit, hell we still have gills at that point and webbed fingers and toes...those pics are fabricated...
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Pluba Freshman |
A life is a life.
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