Kitsune...I don't think if you aborted this baby that you would be able to live with yourself. Please DO NOT do that. I know that adopting the baby out would be hard, but so many people out there would give this child a great home. This baby is a beautiful gift from God and you shouldn't end that. Even if it was not planned. I know that I have longed to adopt another child. I cannot have any more kids due to health problems where I would have died trying to have another baby, but I have wanted one sooooo badly. I sometimes get upset when I see new babies. I lost one of my babies and have felt a huge hole inside ever since. Please do not end this childs life...there are people out there sweetie. People like me, that would give your baby a loving home and be greatful to have that child. I am here if you need to talk to me anytime. PT me if you need to...to talk or for help. I will do all I can for you.
Sorry to hear about that AC I didn't know you lost a baby. How sad! My older sis lost a couple babies before she got the kids she has now. For some reason, she just miscarried the first 2 tries. She was devastated and almost gave up ever having kids. Now she has 3 and a 4th on the way soon. A houseful, but one thing I remember when we were kids, she wanted to have 10 of them! I think she's going to actually try going for that goal whether she has them herself or adopts them.
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Akitacrazy is right. I also have lost children and adopted to have children. If it were not for the unselfishment of a birth mother, letting her baby be adopted,, many would never know the joys of childhood. Children are your life. And I am very thankful for my children and their biological mother's gift to me. I hope that God can guide you to the decision that is right for you. God Bless.
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quote:Originally posted by Kitsune: hi everyone...
thanks for your advice, i really appreciate it...
it's no longer an issue. i miscarried.
i suppose it's for the better.
Kits...Bless you, u are a very strong person whether you see if or not. The time will be right for you when you want it to. I am truly sorry you had to go through all this. stac
I didn't know you lost a baby. How sad! My older sis lost a couple babies before she got the kids she has now. For some reason, she just miscarried the first 2 tries. She was devastated and almost gave up ever having kids. Now she has 3 and a 4th on the way soon. A houseful, but one thing I remember when we were kids, she wanted to have 10 of them! I think she's going to actually try going for that goal whether she has them herself or adopts them.
