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<Your Mama>
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Originally posted by Dennise:
Please tell me what you think?
If you made a mistake and had an affair with a married person and were also married.
If you stopped your wicked ways .... but he had not and you knew and respected his wife... would you tell the wife?
thanks in advance! Frown


What's the big rush? Are you dying of aids or something?
 
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<Passion Wolf>
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What I think is sad is when trolls starts posting & everyone assumes it is me lol.Denise I don't care who you are or what you do. but when you wanna bash a person make sure you are bashing them for their crimes. Stop assuming it is a person that you are bashing.
 
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Newba Pluba
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When trolls post, it could be anybody, even a registered member. Eek Most likely a registered member just acting up.
 
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Good Pluba
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Originally posted by The LAW:
When trolls post, it could be anybody, even a registered member. Eek Most likely a registered member just acting up.



Very true! Are you new? Or "just acting up"? JJ Wink I amitt I find it entertaining to read some stuff the trolls bring, but this is stupid and pathetic! I just love how the troll can't even spell her name right! rotflol


 
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Newba Pluba
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Is there a doctor in the house? rotflol

Pup_pet, can you explain to me what your signature means or is it just cute?
 
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Newba Pluba
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welcome2
 
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<Teenager>
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Why are you all fighting? I mean this is a place people leave confessions it doesn't say u must critisize, and you are all suppose to be ADULTS! start acting like one for god sake.

from Teenager
 
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Grand Pluba
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"Dennise"...if your post was legit and you truly are seeking advice, then I'll bite and give you my thoughts.

I think you need to concentrate on healing your own marriage. I understand you wanting to help this other woman, but I am not sure if this coming from you is going to help her much since you were one of his conquests. Men who are like this guy you mention, typically have wives who suspect what is going on. Doesn't sound like he had a one time fling but does this often.

Let it go, atone for what you did, and if you want to make your marriage work concentrate your energies there. Apparently something was lacking for you to cheat in the first place. Perhaps you need some real counseling from a professional therapist to help you with whatever it is that you felt was missing in your life.

Good luck.


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"Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation. Your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are." -Dale Carnegie




 
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<Dennise>
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What a thoughtfull reply Doxiechick. Thank you...
 
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<the real Denise>
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Actually what was missing is that I had just lost my best friend to a long illness. And my oldest Brother had commited suicide. My only son had joined the Airforce a year after 9-11.
Just life stresses and this Man was a shoulder to cry on I guess. A Methodist Pastor of my church. I just felt he had taken advantage of my vulnerability? and learned through him that I was the troubled "type" of woman he goes for.
What a Jerk huh? Im relieved Im healthy and somewhat sane now Wink
 
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<rosemarie>
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Originally posted by the real Denise:
Actually what was missing is that I had just lost my best friend to a long illness. And my oldest Brother had commited suicide. My only son had joined the Airforce a year after 9-11.
Just life stresses and this Man was a shoulder to cry on I guess. A Methodist Pastor of my church. I just felt he had taken advantage of my vulnerability? and learned through him that I was the troubled "type" of woman he goes for.
What a Jerk huh? Im relieved Im healthy and somewhat sane now Wink


oh yeah, he's a prime example of what a preacher should be

methodists, tsk, tsk tsk!!
 
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Grand Pluba
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Just life stresses and this Man was a shoulder to cry on I guess. A Methodist Pastor of my church. I just felt he had taken advantage of my vulnerability? and learned through him that I was the troubled "type" of woman he goes for.


Men and women are at the most vulnerable for affairs when they are consoling one another.

And yes, what a jerk. Unfortunately, there are many men; preachers, priests, doctors, therapists....who take advantage of their "position" and use it to prey on women.
These are the kind of men who tend to see women at their most vulnerable, so an unethical man in this position will surely take advantage.

Sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope things are going better for you.


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Newba Pluba
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Get spayed a.s.a.p.
 
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<carving knife>
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Originally posted by Kinzel's:
Get spayed a.s.a.p.


Yeah Dewey, Just like you spayed all of those "rescued" puppy mill mutts you made money off of?
Thank _od you cant "rescue" anymore poor pups!

I hope you always have to live in an Apt.!
 
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Newba Pluba
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Hey knife, actually I have over 20 rescues I got straight from the pound last week, some are mixes but they seem to all be fertile!!
Now if I can only find Rose so we can band together our puppymill will e the biggest and most profitable EVER !!!!!!
 
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Grand Pluba
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Hey knife, actually I have over 20 rescues I got straight from the pound last week, some are mixes but they seem to all be fertile!!
Now if I can only find Rose so we can band together our puppymill will e the biggest and most profitable EVER !!!!!!


I hope you were joking?

And telling her to get spayed was not very nice. This is a Psychologist Forum....in other words, check the judgements at the door.


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"Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation. Your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are." -Dale Carnegie




 
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<IN THE KNOW>
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kinzel's, aka Hilerey Brock aka dewey aka hilerey dillerey aka DOGMAN, etc

is none other than a worthless puppy brokering pimp

read the archives, she "rescues" from puppymills which she pays for and then ups the price and resells them

not a rescue at all

she adds to the profits of puppymillers and she resells a poor dog from them - that is not helping the animals at all

and she lies, constantly!
 
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<IN THE KNOW>
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and no, she isn't a very nice person

and she bred some of those puppymill dogs to and sold off their pups

very little consideration for those pathetic pups.

now we can suppose she will blame it all on her husband or whatever he was, dillon
 
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Newba Pluba
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Originally posted by Doxiechick:
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Hey knife, actually I have over 20 rescues I got straight from the pound last week, some are mixes but they seem to all be fertile!!
Now if I can only find Rose so we can band together our puppymill will e the biggest and most profitable EVER !!!!!!


I hope you were joking?

And telling her to get spayed was not very nice. This is a Psychologist Forum....in other words, check the judgements at the door.


I'm sorry, did you not see where she was asking for advice? I did, and I gave her mine!
Maye you would feel differently if it were your husband she was sleeping with, and the only advice I can ive a woman who chooses to sleep with another womans man is to get fixed!
How would you like to be married to someone and have a family with them only to find out some chick on the side is aving your childrens brother/sister?
If she wants to make mistakes as big as what she's making thats fine, she is already ruining several peoples lives by doing this, why add kids to it?Why take the chance?

Its not about judgments, she asked for advice so I gave her mine, this is a forumn.Had I not logged in under my name to write what I did then I would consider it just being an ***, but that is truly my thoughts on the situation and I don't care who knows I said it.
Besides, look at what she had to say when replying to others, she doesn't seem to NICE to me, she is sleeping with a married man, and she didn't ask for NICE advice.
 
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Pluba Understudy
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Maye you would feel differently if it were your husband she was sleeping with, and the only advice I can ive a woman who chooses to sleep with another womans man is to get fixed!
How would you like to be married to someone and have a family with them only to find out some chick on the side is aving your childrens brother/sister?
If she wants to make mistakes as big as what she's making thats fine, she is already ruining several peoples lives by doing this, why add kids to it?Why take the chance?


Why just blame her. It take two to tango.
 
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